Distinct Alcoholic Behavior Patterns

I have attended over two thousand alcoholism support group meetings for friends and family members of alcoholics. There are common behavior patterns that I've learned about that addicts have. These are distinct personality attributes that can be recognized in someone battling a drinking problem.

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Here are a few behaviors you may notice if they are becoming addicted to alcohol:

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They May Be More Talkative
People lose their inhibitions when they get intoxicated. I can always tell when a good friend of mine has had too much to drink. We talk on the phone often. He is the type of person who listens well and talks little when he has not been drinking. When he has had a few drinks, he has a tendency to talk my head off.

They Will Have Little Fear
I'll never forget going to the Bahamas on vacation and while there, I bungee jumped two times. Now I am the kind of person who is really afraid of heights. I would have never jumped if I had not been under the influence. When I used to drink, I had the attitude that I could accomplish anything. I had very little fear once I had few drinks in me.

You Will See Mood Swings
If you are beginning to feel like your walking on eggshells when you are around someone you think is having a problem with alcohol, they probably are. Alcoholic behavior often is accompanied by erratic mood changes.

They say that alcoholics use anger and anxiety as defence mechanisms. If they can keep those around them upset, it takes the focus off of them. While everyone else is acting nuts because of something the addict has done, the addict can point the finger at their poor behaviors.

An Alcoholic May Inappropriately Act Silly
When they are under the influence, they will often laugh at things that are really not funny. They will act giddy and carefree at inappropriate moments. Bizarre behavior patterns will crop up at the strangest tines.

Here are a few alcoholic behavior patterns that don't really need an explanation:

Consuming alcohol early in the day Drinking to deal with a hangover Attempts to cut down or stop Drinking to cope with emotional issues or stress Often makes statements such as "I need a drink" Continued use despite the problems it causes Slurred speech Slow reflexes Memory problems Poor judgment Feeling invincible Jealousy Intense irritability

If you are beginning to notice recurring behavior patterns that you think could be linked to alcoholism, I would suggest getting help from people who know what you are up against.

In the resource section below, we have provided a link to some free audio lessons on dealing with alcoholics. I hope you will take a moment to go and check them out.

There are certain things that you can learn that will really help you in coping with this difficult situation. The sooner you can start learning proven methods of dealing with alcoholics, the better your life will become.

Once alcoholic behavior patterns begin, they do not stop until the person decides to quit drinking. This can be a long wait for change to happen in their lives. Nothing that you do will make them quit drinking. This leaves the burden of changing behaviors on you. You will need to start living your life differently as it relates to the alcoholic relationship you are involved in.

Distinct Alcoholic Behavior Patterns

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